Someone wrote that because they had heartfeltedly apologised to let it go....
I just have to say that this is wrong and you will learn that if/when you have children. My sons do things that are wrong and they say they are sorry. This doesn't mean that they are exempt from punishment or restitution.
I would do everything in my power to get the video tape if it truly exists and I would start calling news stations. If your police or DA are unwilling to prosecute, call the ACLU.
If you were a jew with menorah or muslim and someone came and destroyed your ramadan display they would be prosecuted with hate crimes and everything else...this should be no different.
Best Regards,
Chrystal